
Hello
Hello from the heartland. Thanks for stopping by. After many years as an author of books about train stations, travel and history I am going down a different road. For about two years I have been working on a guide book with a road map for men. At times we have all struggled with the topics of love, sex, relationships, self-care and more. I talk about reality but also the importance of a free mind and heart to discover "wonder"...."not just happiness" Life is about connection...let's get to know each other.
My Story
We all start out as dreamers when we are young...with no fear. Then the years fly by. We get involved with our jobs, family and friends. Many of us spend our lives "reacting" to life, not exploring what's beyond our daily routines. I was fortunate to realize my dreams over the years, learning so much from the mistakes I made, but now that wonderful time of life has come where I do only what I love. I am exploring the city where I have always wanted to live...with my dog King and the woman of my dreams - it is heaven on earth. I am at peace and know joy.
During my career I was blessed with success in the corporate world, academia and the great experience of publishing books that once again become an exciting and important part of my life. My relaxed lifestyle now includes working with my company to build production facilities that transform trash into renewable energy...it's rewarding and fun. But what I really love to do is write about more than places, things and history. I write about who we are and what we can become when we understand ourselves and others. It is so easy to lose our way in terms of what is real in the world and in our individual lives. Peace in your soul and passion in your life...that's the destination.
Here on this site and in my books/blog I bring you what some of the top minds and leaders say about the path to peace, better health and deeper relationships. My message is to look inward first and then work from there. Man of Real is my most recent book that provides a starting point. Listen to my blogs - they range in topics from meditation to foot care to sexual position tips. Send me a message...love to hear from you. Or you can sign up below to get news and advice occasionally through my newsletter...I am also setting up personal appearances which will be posted soon.
A revised version of the Man of Real test will be coming out soon! Sign up for my newsletter so you can receive a link when it is ready to see where you fall.
Robert McElwee